2025 Theme: “With Survivors, Always”
Every October, we pause to bring light to an issue that touches countless lives yet often remains hidden: domestic violence/intimate partner abuse. First, let’s define what it is. Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another person. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. The most painful wounds of domestic/intimate partner violence are often invisible, and breaking free from a cycle of abuse is not simple or easy.
What are some emotional, verbal and behavioral signs that you or a loved one are in an abusive relationship?
- Sudden drop in self-esteem or confidence. Feelings of shame and embarrassment triggered by the relationship
- Isolation from friends, family, or activities once enjoyed
- Frequently checking in with partner, seeming to “need permission”
- Partner shows controlling behaviors (monitoring phone, finances, whereabouts)
- Constant blame for problems in the relationship as well as insults, belittling and humiliation in public and/or private.
How Can You Help a Loved One?
Support Survivors – Offer resources, encouragement, and practical help to those in need.
Learn & Share – Educate yourself and others about the dynamics and impact of domestic violence.
Remain Compassionate – Survivors may truly want to leave their abusive partner, but it is when they are ready.
Consistent Care – Let them know you love them and remain patient. Allow them the time they need, without judgment, no matter how long it takes.
Express Your Concerns – Be gentle, not confrontational. Choose the right time & place. Prepare for resistance (they may deny, minimize, or justify the abuse).
Get Your Own Support – It may be very emotional, confusing and frustrating to see a loved one stuck in an abusive relationship.
Our Role in Healing
At Wholistic Counseling PC, our mission is rooted in partnership, support, and solidarity. We know that recovery from domestic violence is not only about safety—it’s also about restoring the mind, body, and spirit. Survivors deserve more than survival. They deserve to thrive.
We offer:
- Safe, confidential counseling to help survivors process the trauma.
- Group support that builds empowerment and reduces isolation.
- Mind-body healing practices to restore peace and resilience.
- Family support services to help loved ones navigate the impact together.
Domestic violence can leave deep scars, but it does not define a person’s future. With compassion, resources, and holistic care, healing is always possible.
This October, let us not only raise awareness but also renew our commitment: to stand with survivors, always. If you know someone who is in need of support, feel free to share our link for a free consultation.